looking for heaven,

fuckyeahgirlcrush:

thefeelgoodblog:

This is for all the girls out there who post pictures of skinny ass bitches.
Do you know who this picture is of? That’s Marilyn Monroe. They’ve considered her the most beautiful woman in the world. She’s gorgeous, right? But look at her stomach. Is it completely flat? Does she not have love handles? Does she have perfect long skinny legs? No. She doesn’t. And wanna know something? Her pants size was a size 9. She wasn’t some fucking 00. 1. She had CURVES. You all worry about your pants size and your weight when, in reality, who cares? Why not live your life and be happy instead of counting calories in your head? Trying to “be skinny”? You think losing weight it going to automatically make you feel better? It wont. No magical fairy is gonna come flying out of the fucking wood work declaring, “You’re now officially hot! Boys love you now! You can be accepted by society!” No. Utter, bullshit. You’re fucking beautiful; it’s society thats fucked. Love yourself because if you cant love yourself you cant love anybody or anything else. Be free and be happy. Fuck what the media says, you want that double cheese-burger with bacon? GO FOR IT. Until your weight starts to affect your health, you’re perfectly fine to eat what you please. ♥

Although this post does have some good ideas about self esteem, I need to just point out the body-shaming. You can’t go on about loving your body the way it is while complaining about 00 sized pants. Those “skinny little bitches” deserve to love their bodies and feel good about themselves too, you know. True, media glamourizes skinnier figures more, but lets just not shame any healthy, natural bodies. Because it IS possible to be thin and healthy, just as it’s possible to be larger than Marilyn up there and be healthy too.